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Jesus' Model for Discipling Families and Nations—with the Father

If we are going to be effective witnesses, helping Jesus call and bring his sheep from every family and ethnic group, we need to be like him in having an intimate relationship with the Father— knowing him and being known by him. It is our relationship with the Father that enables us to lead people into a new kind of community. Following Jesus and obeying God as Father like he did does not mean leading people into a new hierarchical, patriarchal society. Rather it means leading people out from the power of the patriarchal ‘sheepfolds’ of family, religious and ethnic groups. But first we must approach them through Jesus, the “gate”. This means that we should seek to understand and respect the structure and leadership of any ‘sheepfold’ we enter. Otherwise we may be perceived as ‘thieves or bandits’ or merely another religion peddler. Once in the new multi-cultural ‘flock’, though, obedience to the Father means learning to exercise authority and free choice in serving others as adult sons and daughters. This does not mean a rejection of our culture and family groups, but the development of a new relationship with them, based not on subservience but on respect.Liza Ryan (Canada/USA)

SCRIPTURE PASSAGE

Jesus said, ‘I have come into this world for judgment, so that those not seeing might see, and that those seeing might become blind.’ ·Some of the Pharisees who were with him, on hearing these things, said to him, ‘No! Are we blind then?·Jesus said to them, ‘If YOU were blind, YOU would have no sin. Yet now that YOU say, “We see,” truly YOUR sin remains. ·I tell YOU for sure:

(1) The one who does not come into the sheepfold through the gate, but jumps over (the fence) elsewhere, that one is a thief and a brigand. ·But the one who comes in through the gate is a shepherd to the sheep. ·The gatekeeper opens to this one, and the sheep pay attention to his voice. Then he calls his sheep by name and leads them out. ·And when he has taken his sheep out, he travels in front of them; and the sheep follow him because they know his voice. ·Yet they will not follow a stranger, but they will flee from him because they do not know the voice of the strangers.

 Though Jesus used this metaphor with them, the things he said in it were incomprehensible to them. ·So Jesus spoke to them again, ‘I tell YOU for sure, I am the gate to the sheep. ·All who came before me are thieves and brigands, yet the sheep did not pay attention to them. ·I am the gate. If anyone comes in through me he shall be kept safe, and he shall go in and out and shall find pasture.

(2) The thief comes only so that he might steal or kill or destroy. (I have come so that they may have life and have it in abundance. ·I am the good shepherd.) The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. ·But the hired laborer, seeing he is not the shepherd to whom the sheep belong, deserts the sheep and flees when he sees the wolf coming; and the wolf seizes and scatters the sheep. ·He flees because he is a hired laborer and does not care about the sheep.

 I am the good shepherd, so I know and am known by those who are mine— ·just as the Father knows me and I too know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep.

 (3) Indeed I have other sheep which are not of this sheepfold. Those I must also lead out when they pay attention to my voice; and there will be one flock, one shepherd.

 For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life so that I might take it up again. · No one takes it from me. Rather, I am laying it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down and I have authority to take it up again. I received this command alongside my Father.’ ·Now a split occurred among the Judeans because of these words.  (John 9:39–10:19 GH[i])

MEDITATION

This parable is like some movies. The first scene (1) starts telling a story in the middle, then we get a flashback to the beginning (2); yet the story doesn't fully make sense until we watch the final scene (3). When Jesus speaks of ‘anyone’ entering a ‘sheepfold’ through him as ‘the Gate’ (scene 1), he is envisioning the time when his disciples will be the ‘shepherds’ through whom he, ‘the Good Shepherd’ will call the ‘other sheep’, of sheepfolds other than their own, into a single flock[ii] (3). In the middle scene (2), the flashback, the disciples are still ‘sheep’—in their own ‘sheepfold’—when Jesus (the Good Shepherd) comes in to bring them life.

Thus the ‘flock’, being led by Jesus, represents the church; and it is comprised of ‘sheep’ from various ‘sheepfolds’, which represent the family and tribal groups in Israel and all the other nations. The parable is challenging us, Jesus' disciples, to become shepherds who are like him and not like the ‘gatekeepers’ and ‘hired hands’ under whom we grew up in our families and ethnic groups. This is why he speaks of himself first as the Gate. For his audience includes both his disciples and some local Judean Pharisees, religious leaders whose colleagues have just been abusing a healed blind man and intimidating his parents (Jn.9:22-34).

So how do we, as followers of Jesus (sheep), become spiritual leaders (shepherds) like him? First, we need to approach individuals with the Gospel the way Jesus did, by showing respect for their social group (sheepfold). Jesus wants us to be welcomed and listened to, not ignored and avoided like a ‘stranger’ or a ‘thief’ (who avoids the ‘gatekeeper’ by ‘jumping over the fence’ to ‘steal and destroy’), because the promised blessing he came to bring is for whole families and nations, not just for individuals (Gen.22:18; Gal.3:8ff). As ‘the Gate’, he is also the one through whom God made every family and nation, and their ‘rulers and authorities’. And ‘in him’ all social structures are still ‘held together’ (Acts 17:26; Col.1:15-17, Med.#31). Consequently, there are people Jesus considers his ‘own’ (sheep) within each nation (sheepfold); because, though ‘lost’, they are nevertheless seeking to fear God, follow their consciences and do what is right (Act.10:34-35; Rom.2:6-15).

An inner-city pastor in Chicago observed that there were many dysfunctional and broken families in his neighborhood. And he realized that if he wanted individual converts to ‘grow up and form (healthy) Christian households’ he needed to focus ‘not only on one person, but on three generations’. When women and children from such families began following Jesus and coming to the church and to the Sunday school, he ‘made himself accountable to the fathers’ who weren’t coming to church. Going to visit these household heads, he asked them for their input: what changes in the children’s behavior would they like to see? Agreeing to preach on such issues, he returned later to see whether the ‘father could report any improvements’. As a result, these family ‘gatekeepers’ not only welcomed his influence, but many of them began coming to church as well.[iii]

If we regard Jesus as ‘the Gate’ we will also follow his lead in the way we ‘call’ people, and then ‘travel in front of them’ as they learn to follow him. Yet the opening of Jesus' parable implies that this doesn't happen automatically. We might unconsciously reproduce many of the familiar behavioral patterns of the leaders under whom we grew up in our social groups—those that God appointed to be our ‘guardians’ (‘hired hands’) until Jesus came (Med.#4). The way we become shepherds like Jesus is by learning to choose to do what he did: maintain a close relationship with the Father, through knowing him and being known by him. We too become his adult sons and daughters when Jesus leads us out to ‘pasture’. No longer subject to the boundaries of a sheepfold, we can safely go in and out of any sheepfold (including our own) with him, without coming under the guardianship power of gatekeepers. This is the abundant life in the Holy Spirit that Jesus came to bring. And through the Spirit of Jesus, we can ask our Father for understanding: to know what he is doing in the lives of the people he leads us to, and how to show respect for their group culture like he did[iv]—as we call them, lead them and empower them so that they too become shepherds under him, the ‘Chief Shepherd’ (1 Pet.5:2-3).

It was also through spending time with his Father that Jesus embraced his plan for dealing with the Enemy (the wolf). He was not crucified because human powers decided to take his life from him, but because as an adult Son he chose to lay it down for us. And when he took it up again, he was also exercising his authority—to empower his disciples into their own adult relationship with the Father by the Spirit, so they could go with him to other nations and disciple them. Like Jesus, we too are called to ‘lay down our lives’ for our brothers and sisters (Med.#54). But from my family and church culture, I learned to be something of a rescuer and a ‘help-a-holic’. Maybe you can identify with me. So I've come to recognize my need to spend time alongside my Father, like Jesus did, in order to be sure I'm responding to his command, with authority as his son, and not just coming under pressure from other people or from my own tendencies. And I'm seeing more clearly how important it is: to exercise my authority also in taking up my own life again with the Father after I have helped someone—so I don't find my identity in being a helper. And the one I helped doesn't become dependent on me.

How were you taught to approach, call and lead people to Jesus? Whose example are you following? Are you growing up into a shepherd like him? Or are you still thinking of yourself as only his sheep?

PRAYING THE WORD

Father, you love me even as you loved Jesus. Rooted and grounded in your love, may I have power together with all the saints to grasp, proclaim and demonstrate how broad and long and deep and high the all-surpassing love of Christ really is. (Jn.17:23; Eph.3:17,18)

Father, give me the Spirit of wisdom and revelation so that I may know you better, and also know the riches of your glorious inheritance—in order to lead others into it too, especially to those who still fear God and seek to do what is right in spite of bad experiences with the ‘strangers’, ‘hired hands’ and ‘thieves’ who came to them in your name. (Eph.1:17,18; Acts 10:35; Jn.10:5,8,12)

May I reveal Jesus to those you give me, Father. Protect them by the power of your name from the evil one. For them I sanctify myself as Jesus did, that they too may live holy adult lives with you. (Jn.17:6,11,15,19)

NOTES

[i] The whole Scripture Passage is taken from J.K. Mellis, The Good News of the Messiah by the Four Witnesses, pp.147-148.

[ii] In the Greek text a sheepfold [aulee] is a defined space enclosed by a wall or fence (with a gate), while a flock [poimne] is only defined by its relationship to the shepherd [poimeen] and by what the sheep are doing—feeding [poimaino].

[iii] Ray Bakke, The Urban Christian, Bromley, MARC Europe, 1987, p.105 (Chapter 5)

[iv] To see how Jesus approached the ‘sheep’ of a different ethnic group, see Med.#3 and the article on how I learned to apply this text to approaching our Moroccan (Muslim) neighbors. On how Jesus stood up to the gatekeepers of his own family and nation in the authority of the Spirit, see Med.#26. For more on the Father and church leadership, see Chapter 9.